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writes:A boy who Ive known for a while has asked me out on a date. The thing is, I know he is not over his ex who split with him last year. I feel like a rebound but then I also feel like I should give him a chance because he has to move on. I also still like a boy who I was seeing for 3 months until 2 weeks ago when he finished it. I know there is no way of us getting back together. Should go on a date with this new guy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007): How can i get guy to go on a date with me and hes got to be 20 or 2.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): Why not go out for a date and see how it goes. You may go out with him and not like him. I dont think he is on a rebound with you but you may be in a rebound period. I am not you, but if i was, i would go out with the new bloke and have a great time. Stop worrying and see how things happen.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (9 October 2007):
Yes you should go out with the new guy. Go slow in becoming intimate until you are sue of your mutual feelings. Moving too fast is a sign of rebounding.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): I think that if anyone is on the rebound it's you. You've only been split from your ex for 2 weeks, but he's been split from his ex for at leat 10 months by my reckoning.
He is more likely to be over his ex than you yours. The fact that he's asked you out on a date shows that he's ready to move on.
If you feel you want to go out on a date with him then why not? If he knows about your split, he's probably been waiting for just this moment to dive in and catch you before someone else does at the earliest sensible opportunity.
I say go for it if you feel ready to embark on another romance.
Phil
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