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writes:I'm kinda iffy about this.I've know this girl for like 2 years...I don't really know if I like her, but I want to move on and get over this other girl. She's so damn cute, artistic and athletic just like me. She's the spoiled type, but that's ok with me.It's not like I'm using her though, I can actually see myself with this girl, we're really good friends, she compares me with her older brother.We go to the mall, movies, and stores and shit. Sometimes I feel like a chauffeur when she asks me to pick her up from school (She's a senior in high school, I'm in Freshman in college) but that's all good with me, I think I need the type of girl that wants to be pampered.I don't want to ruin the relationship that we have now by going for more. It's fucked up my relationship with this girl I used to chill with all the time. Should I try to get her to like me and then go for it, or should I just keep her off limits so I don't ruin a great friendship. What would you do?
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reader, Leighann_ox  +, writes (19 August 2009):
I'm fell in love with my best friend and we got together. I find it fantastic, he know's everything about me, we're so comfortable with each other because of how well we know each other. He used to pick me up too and treated me brilliantly even when I was with my ex.
You need to decide if you want to take the plunge with her, I spoke to my boyfriend about it and we decided to make a go of it. It doesn't mean your relationship as friends will be screwed if you guys don't work out. Since you spend to much time together and get on so well it is possible that she likes you and wants to be more than friends.
Just speak to her about it and tell her how you feel, but say if she doesn't feel you same way you don't want to ruin your friendship.
Life'd be boring if we didn't take chances, so try it!
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reader, AznXoXsparkz +, writes (18 August 2009):
 This is a tough solution.
If you dont want to ruin the friendship..
then you should try to get closer each and everyday with her and maybe she would come around, and if you sure she likes talk about how you feeling for her..
But dont be in the friend zone.. its hard to get out..
to know your in the friend zone , she wont let you get touchy with her or she pulls back sometimes or she only think you as a brother... if she calls you your like my brother.. your dead meat..
good luck mate.
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