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writes:From my other post you might get the point that my bf hasn't been contacting me as much as he used to since I called him on his cousins phone. Well it's been a month since I heard from him he said "baby call me back my uncle just died" I tried calling but no answer. That phone is disconnected now. I messaged his sister on her facebook status that had said they were out of state and returning that day back home I said "hey whats up?" she replied to me in a private message saying "good you? when you comin to visit?" Me- "good thanks, I'm waiting for your brother to contact me before I come and visit"her- "He's here at the house come visit!!"(my bf lives with his sister btw)me- "can you get your brother to contact me before"then she gave me her number and told me to call and for me to give her mine but my phone got shut off so I'll have to call from a store near by cause it's Long distance. After that she said my bf had no way of messaging me cause his cousin was being a bitch to him and that's his only was of messaging me if he doesn't have a phone I also asked if he wanted to see me she said ya he does we miss you!. I told her that I could come next weekend and that I will call her then. I heard nothing from her yet but I had only said that to her yesterday.My question is: Should I go visit my bf and his sister my gut and my intuition is telling me yes but nothing makes sense as to why he is not getting back to me. *Please don't be judgemental and say leave him, he's not interested I feel it's something more then that which is causing this less communication and plus this isn't the full storyThanks
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reader, Angie7 +, writes (22 November 2011):
Angie7 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks, I hope so too.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (22 November 2011):
 Well good luck for Saturday and I hope you can both sit down and talk about your future and how this is going to work. You both need to just sit and talk it out, I hope it all goes well for you.
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reader, Angie7 +, writes (22 November 2011):
Angie7 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe thing is it was never like this until I called him on his cousins phone and your right nothing will go anywhere like this I talked to his sister I told her I'll be coming on Saturday.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (22 November 2011):
If you are in a relationship with this guy then you should both be communicating much more than you both are now. If things stay like this then things are never going to work or progress. You both need to sit down and ask each other where the relationship is going.
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reader, Angie7 +, writes (22 November 2011):
Angie7 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your reply I'm just a bit nervous cause it's been a while. But I always get a nervous feeling I just have a hard time asking other people to do something for me or to ask someone else something for me. But I got up the nerve to even talk to her and she brought up that I should come visit.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (22 November 2011):
The only way you are going to find out what is wrong with him is to go ahead and visit him and talk to him face to face. Wait for his sister to get back to you about the go ahead and go up and talk to him about your relationship. Good luck.
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