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writes:I have a question for the ladies out there. I know that some women like to have conversations most days with their "guy" friends and some would rather they only spoke maybe once a week or so.Well my dilema goes like this. My best friend and I talk to each other every day on msn and until uni broke up for summer we would see each other in person every day. So now the only ways of contact are email and phone. She seems to be leaving conversations abruptley over the last few days and i wonder if I should give her a bit of space for a few days.Any advice?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (11 June 2008):
She is probably just at home with her parents saying "are you still on that bloody computer?" or "come and do the washing up!"
You could go a day without speaking to her and tell her you are going out to a mates or something. She might feel freer to do that to you then if she genuinely is busy. She might just not be able to talk but not want to hurt your feelings so comes on for a short time.
I really wouldn't worry too much. Since you are just mates, you should be able to chill out a bit over summer without it causing upset.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2008): You seem like a very considerate guy.
I suggest you send her an email, let her know that you realize she might be pre-occupied or if there is something that is troubling her, you are there for her, and then, yes, give her time and space!
Good luck!
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