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writes:im going out with some boy but i dont really like him, i dont really know why im going out with him, i think i just wanted a boyfriend because my bestmate had one. He likes to touch up my leg especially when im wearing a skirt and im too scared to say no, whenever i try to get into an argument for a reason to dump him, he tells me that its all his fault and he loves me, and then i feel bad. Anyway, recently i went to Rome with the school and i met this boy who i really really liked and we was holding hands and kissing and everything but i felt so bad about my boyfriend, do you think i should just dump him and go out with the other boy who i hardly know, or should i just stay with him and he never find out about me and the boy on holiday in Rome. Please answer, and im sorry if my story bored you haha.Thanks :) xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2009): Babe just go out with whichever one takes you fancy,u shouldnt feel uncomfortable with ur bf and if ur having fun with the other lad then have him! Ly x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2009): Your story isn't boring! :-)
I definitely think you should end the relationship with your boyfriend if you really don't want to be with him. I know you feel bad about it, but it isn't fair for you to stay with him if you don't like him much. Yes, he will be hurt at first, but you will be freeing him to move on, and one day he will find someone who will really like him and want to be with him.
You will probably also just make yourself unhappy if you stay with him. So for both of your sakes, I suggest just being brave and ending it, if you really don't think it could work between you.
As for the other guy, if you want to start seeing him, then that's fine, but try to be tactful about it, so the other guy doesn't get hurt by it.
But I'm concerned that you feel afraid to say no when your current boyfriend touches your leg. NOBODY should make you feel uncomfortable in this way. Whether it's a guy you like or not. So don't get pressured into anything you don't like or don't want to do. x
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