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*exygal7
writes:i really like this boy at school but i dont know how to get him to notice me.should i do something with my hair or face?what do i do to get with him!!! he is so cutehelp asap thanks!
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (28 October 2010):
 It's not absolutely. No. Very subtle makeup is nice, put some on if it makes only you feel better about who you are, not to het his attention. The less the better. I would speak to him (communicate).
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (28 October 2010):
 necessary no, helpful yes.
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reader, sexygal7 +, writes (28 October 2010):
sexygal7 is verified as being by the original poster of the question so are you guys saying that no makeup and hair is nessacary!!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 October 2010):
A girl once changed her hair to get my attention 'that way', as they say. I noticed that she'd changed her hair, but it didn't have the effect she was looking for. I still didn't suddenly fancy her and realize that she fancied me.
If you want his attention, then do something a little more drastic and go talk to him, get to know him. By all means change your hair if it makes you feel good, but don't do it just to get his attention. It probably won't work.
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (27 October 2010):
I'm not saying that we don't like hair- he'll probably notice that you changed your hair, but you want him specifically to notice you in "that" way. He's not going to know you changed your hair specifically for him, so its pretty much the most passive way ever to get his attention.
Why don't you just give him a look, or touch his arm, or strike up a conversation? Its specific to him and will get him to start thinking that you could be interested in him, then he's more likely to start thinking about you in "that" way.
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reader, Griffo +, writes (27 October 2010):
Don't do anything with your face or hair, just be natural, that is far more sexy that going out drastic. This is simple: just say hi when you see him, smile at him and let him come to you.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (27 October 2010):
 I have to disagree with Jmtmj. It really depends on the guy, certain hairstyles may serve you well in getting this guy to notice you. You could try wavy hair if you do not have that is not your style already, but that is my personal taste. Like Jmtmj, this guy may not care about hairstyles.
Aside from physical appearances, you already have what you need to get this guy to notice you. You have a voice, you have personality, all you need to do is strike up a conversation. Before you ask, start by saying "hi", ask him about his classes perhaps, whatever you think is best.
I hope that helps.
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (27 October 2010):
There's one problem with doing that... You're assuming that guys care about hair as much as you girls do...
We really don't.
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