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Should I date or wait for her? HELP???

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Question - (22 March 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 March 2006)
A male , *obby198 writes:

Sorry if this is long...

Last July I met the Girl of my dreams...

It was really love at first site for both of us.

I rememeber it like it was yesterday when my buddy and I dropped her off at her house I was thinking about how wonderful that Girl was and started to imagine getting involveld.

About a month later that dream became reality, after spending time with Her, I realized we had so much in common, we feel madly in love. She was my first everything, first serious relationship, first kiss, even down to where we were each others first sexual partners...

It just feels so wrong not being with her after an amazing 5 1/2 months that I don't see living without her possible right now. Everything I do reminds of Her. Everything I see reminds of Her. And it seems everything I do won't bring her back. It's been a couple of months now that I haven't spoken to Her, and I miss Her so much. I miss the way Her hair reflects in the sunlight, the deepth of Her eyes when you look into them. But what I miss the most is Her smell, Her silky soft skin, and especially the sound of Her voice. When I was having a bad day, I would hear Her voice and the whole world would just slip away, and I wasn't frustrated at work anymore, or at anybody, She was my best friend.

And like previous answers, maybe time can fix things, but for now the pain just doesn't stop and I don't want this Angel to disapear from my life. She changed my life, and all my goals...

Before Her there was no futur, when we started talking about everything (life, marriage, kids, living together) it sounded so right, but being apart is feeling so wrong.

It's always good to talk to someone who knows you, relative are the best.

Hope you all the best.

Take care of yourselves.

Now she is the only thing I think about even if I met other girls, should I try going out again or wait for her ?

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A female reader, shania United Kingdom +, writes (22 March 2006):

shania agony auntYou have got it bad,havent you?....to be fair,five and a half months is not really that long to get over someone....especially if you had strong feelings for her.You didnt say why you two broke up,but it looks like she was the one who ended it,obviously she didnt feel the same way that you did about her.You really need to move on and try and forget her.Think about it.....is she at home,thinking about you?....i bet she isnt.Dont sit at home and dream of what might of been,instead go out and meet new people,start dating again,it doesnt have to be heavy.....because while you are hankering after her you are missing out on other potential relationships.Good luck.

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