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writes:well you might already know from my other questions me and my boyfriend had been on and off so a month ago i finally made my decision to break up for good. now i have a new boyfriend and he's nothing like my old one. we laugh we joke, and you never had a argument(yet]. my mom and grandma and my really close friends all like him and ask about him all the time. i havent told my dad about him yet because we only have been dating for 3 weeks and i wanna see if things are gonna work first. and in those 3 weeks i have really started to like him alot and he has too. BUT the only thing is he stays 45 minutes away. im not saying i cant see him because i can visit him. but i cant se him as often as i would like to. and i have never tried a distance relationship and was wondering should i continue with him even though he far away. Reply to this Question
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 45 minutes it's not such a long distance :) You could meet up at least once a week, I guess. Remember- always choose quality over quantity. Better to see less often a guy that you really like a lot, than seeing every guy a guy that's not so special to you.
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reader, Annaaa.  +, writes (5 April 2010):
well, i had the same problem with my ex boyfriend. he lived over an hour away, we used to talk on the phone every night. We went out for a month and saw each other once. We loved one another,a lot, but then he ended it, 'cause he didnt like the fact that he would never see me. So if you love each other, alot, carry it on. If there is love there, everything should be ok.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2010): To be honest with you, you have done everything amazingly, I am a guy same age as you I also have that problem but I got a boarding school and my girlfriend goes to a different one, I found it's a lot easier if you plan well, talk often, and just generally stay in touch. Good luck ;)
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