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30-35,
*aur2000
writes:I have been dating this guy for a couple of months now and its going well. The only problem is that in september i will be going to uni and my chosen uni is about 5ish hours away from him. People keep asking me if we are going to keep seeing each other when i go and to be honest i really dont know. i love him and miss him if i dont see him for only a couple of days so i dont know how i am going to cope at uni. I have never had a long distance relationship before and so i am not sure how i will cope with not seeing him and the trust issues that relate to a long distance relationship. Should i try and continue the relationship while i am at uni or should i end it before i go?
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reader, Denizen +, writes (11 June 2009):
 You are too young to get tied into a relationship like this - definitely a long distance one. Going to college is about meeting new people, having fun... It's a time when you can become yourself. You have to give yourself the opportunity to meet new people and perhaps be free to have a fling or two while you are there. The social side of Uni' is as important as the academic. Don't go there with a ball and chain or you will miss all the fun.
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