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Should I contact him or wait for him to contact me?

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Question - (8 July 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 July 2011)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi everyone.

I need help and would like your opinion on this question.

If a guy really cares about you and seeing you, will he call you/send you an email right away after not seeing you anymore? For example, since school has ended and he said we would keep in touch in the summer?

If he really liked you, would he contact you as soon as possible? If it takes him two or three weeks, does this mean he is not thinking about you and you are not on his mind? My mom says if a guy likes you, he will contact you right away and not wait a few weeks. I am not sure if how long it takes him to contact you says anything about his feelings for you?

Any opinions on this? Maybe from guys? I am not sure if I should be the one to contact him if he doesn't contact me. I don't know if I should wait for him or not. He gave me his contact info and said we'd keep in touch. Does that mean he wants me to do it or would he? I don't want to come across as too interested or pushy.

Thank you!

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (9 July 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntWell you said you are both seeing each other. Are you not meeting up over the summer at all. I guess really this one is up to yourself. If you want to contact him then go for it. Maybe drop him an email and see how he is. You are sitting wondering if he doesn't care because he hasn't contacted you, but it works both ways and he might be thinking the same thing.

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