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writes:There´s this guy with whom a have feelings for. We are long distance but communicate very often, or at least we did. Usually, we send jokes or updates, etc. I wrote to him on Sunday and he hasn't replied. Usually he writes immediately, I haven´t heard from him since 2 weeks ago. he said he was good and happy. I´m in trouble now with problems here and although I would like to tell him since he always given me support. I don´t know if he´ll answer this time.I would like to know if it´s that I email too much, or if he´s upset. It would be more of a heartache if he don´t reply. What should I do? Please I feel blue and a word from him would be great right now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2009): If you guys aren't seeing each other, then tell him you would like to. Say that you have feelings for him. If he continues with this lack of communication, then move on and live your own life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2009): I would recommend sending him another message, but just a light and casual one. Perhaps just ask him how he is, and whether he got your last message okay. You never know, it could have been some computer glitch, although I would have thought that he would have contacted you anyway.
If he doesn't reply though, then I don't know what else you can do, it doesn't sound good. Is this out of character for him? Has this happened out of the blue? It's just that you said that you are worried if it is you, if you e-mail too much or if he is upset. This makes me wonder if there have been issues or insecurities before this.
I would give it another shot though, don't give up yet. But just be ready incase he still won't respond. Good luck. x
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