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Should I believe him? or still worry?

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Question - (10 September 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 September 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *enny Junkie writes:

I have a problem. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 16 months i'm 18 and He's almost 20, hes just a jerk now. He acts like my dad... literlly. hes exteremely sexual and I am too but not as bad as he is.. I dont love him like i used too he asks me for 3 somes all the time and it makes me feel so uncomfortable like he wants not just me but one of my friends too and he hates no for an answer! and all my friends were saying that i needed to go behind his back and find someone better for me because they all didnt like him... so i did and i ended up cheating on him with one of his friends. all we did was makeout tho and i liked him becuase he made me feel like a person not a piece of crap. but the guy i ended up makin out with called my boyfriend and told him what happened. I was pushed around physically and got a busted lip. he wanted to kill himself but instead e said he was gonna cheat on me when I least expect it just to get me back, he even called his friends who are kinda man whores and asked them if they knew any hot single chicks he could mess around with. I was hurt. but I know what I did was wrong. but two wrongs dont make it right. but then about 2 months later he gets arrested and put in jail for possesion of marijuana in my car and I told him I was done with him and he said no please dont leave me I'll do anything. I said ok fiine then dont cheat on me back. He said ok and that he promises that he wouldnt even think of it. Should I believe Him or still worry?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009):

This Relationship Really sounds like a disaster . You are obviously not right for eachother . You are a 18 year old independant girl who needs to feel free not trapped . The worst thing is being with a guy who can control and minipulate your thinking without you even reilizing . Finish it find someone who treats you right . You will feel such a release of strain if you do .

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