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female
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anonymous
writes:Hi, I met this guy a couple of months ago and really like him. We have slept together a couple of times it was quite intense from the start but we've only seen each other a couple of times. I haven't seen him in around 5 weeks because I had to go home and visit family. He has sent me messages in the time we haven't seen each other but no as much like in the beginning. He even sent me a message a couple of weeks ago asking if it was finished between us and I replied and said that it was ok. He sent me a message just before new year but I couldn't reply as I had no money. I replied a few days afterwards when I got money to and explained to him and told him I was so sorry. I told him that I would be back in town this week if he wanted to meet up. He replied a few hours later saying yeah we can meet up and it'd be good to see me and said he was glad I was ok. Today I come back to town but he hasn't contacted me in the whole week since his last message. Should I be the one contacting him or should he be the one to call me as I told him I would be around this weekend. I'm confused!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2012): Yes contact him. Say you are in town, then wait. No more texts. You should leave the ball in his court. If he wants to see you he will.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2012): I would contact him, tell him your back, then wait and see his reaction. If he doesn't respond then leave it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2012): I think you should be the one calling him since it's you who's coming into town. how's he supposed to know if your travel plans got changed or stayed the same?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2012): If you want to contact him, then contact him. I don't think it is who should contact who, just call him and see if he wants to meet up. It doesn't sound like you made arrangements on who should call, so just contact him and see what happens. Good Luck.
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