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writes:I live with my bf and his parents. Recently I was sick for two days and my bf had those two days off. His friends came over on those days and he spent the entire time with them in the living room playing games and pool. He only came to our room to see me about seven times and spent less than five minutes each time with me. He never asked if I needed anything.Then yesterday he was off work and had gotten the new Halo game. He played with his friend on line from the time he woke up until the time he went to bed. We only had one conversation and that lasted about two minutes. I told him I loved him before going to bed and he just started talking to his friend about the game. He never acknowledged I was there. Then he expected me to give him sex after he ignored me all day. I slept in the floor so he wouldn't touch me.This happens alot. Not just with his games, with everything. I'll be talking to him and in the middle of it he goes, "Did you say something?"I don't know what I'm trying to ask. Just, does anyone think he's really interested in me? I'm just really confused. And do you think I should be mad at him for his behavior? Reply to this Question
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reader, Tayku +, writes (17 September 2010):
Tayku is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for all your advice. We've been together on and off since February. When we first got together it was all about me. He would write letters and give me gifts. Now it's all just stopped. He refuses to even buy me cigarettes when I don't have the money. One of his friends are coming over either Sunday or Tuesday. What should I do?
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (17 September 2010):
 Personally if that was me, I would have cancelled on the friends or at least offered to.
Not saying he should be running up to you every 5 minutes but he should be there for you.
Also changing the subject after you telling you loved him should sound alarm bells for you?
You dont say how long you have been together, but I would think if its more than 6 months he should know by now if he loves you or not.
Just be careful and I hope it works out for you.
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reader, Denizli  +, writes (17 September 2010):
 Yeah, you have more than one reason to be mad at him.
He might not be interested in you anymore, sounds like he's found more interesting stuff to do, he treats you like one of his toys. Tell him to grow up, it's really not fair he treats you like he does yeah he needs time for himself but if he constantly puts his friends or the xbox before you, i think it's time for a serious talk unless you want to get used to this.
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