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writes:Hi there, I guess I'm asking this in the hope of gaining some clarity in my head. My boyfriend of 10 months was contacted by a female friend of his who he hasn't spoken to for about a year. He has been texting her and talking to her on Facebook for the last 2 days. Should I be worried or am I simply thinking something is going to happen when it isn't and I should trust in my boyfriend? He doesn't know I know about this as I was on a friends Facebook and saw all their comments and her asking him to text her. It's not that I don't trust him, and he is a very social person to begin with - he has lots of different friends - so I just don't know whether I should be concerned. Thanks for any replies (:
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (12 January 2011):
 If you trust him there is no problem, right? Do you not have male friends? It is perfectly healthy for your boyfriend to have friends that happen to be female.
Now if you're a little concerned about it and don't want to admit it. Why don't you ask him about her? Ask to meet her, since she's his friend, maybe you two could become friends too!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2011): I wouldn't worry too much about it. But , I mean if this gets any worse and you can't handle it anymore I would definitely try and talk to him And tell him how you feel. I mean, he can have u know lady friends but if it gets too out of hand then yes you have all the right to be mad. But for now just let it go.
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