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writes:Ive being in a relationship for nearly 7 month now. Its being very up and down and still is, although things do seem to be settling a bit now. Ive thought of walking away lots of times from this relationship but I have stuck it out and I have fell in love with this guy.The thing is he still hasnt told any of his family about me. I know he doesnt really get along with them and he doesnt go to see his parents very much, about once a week. Im not desperate to meet them as they are not the nicest of people. This guys sister is gettin married in July and he tells me about the wedding and who is going but he hasnt invited me or even asked if I would like to go.Im going to my uncles wedding the week after and I would like to ask him to go with me but I feel as "why should I" as he hasnt asked me. My parents and friends know about him and have met him, so why does his parents not know about me?Should I just ask him to this wedding?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the answers guys. Im not going to ask him as he has told me he is doing something that day to do with work. He is on a school trip and he asked me if I wanted to go with him.
He is quite happy for me to go somewhere where his students and work collegues would be not where his family is. He has no reason to be ashamed of me, I am from a nice respectable family, Im a nice girl the only thing I can think it is, is the age difference I am 19 and he is 7 year older. Or that I am still in college and not working I just dont know the answer why he hasnt mentioned me. Also my mum works in the same place as his mum and she has never said anything to my mum and if she knew she would have defo said something.
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reader, littleBB  +, writes (6 May 2011):
It doesn't seem like a good start between you and him. If you think his family is not nice why would you want to be invited? If he doesn't want to introduce you to them this is not good, what is he hiding? I think you should not invite him, give him what he gives you. Tha is just my idea.
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