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writes: My ex-girlfriend and I started dating in HighSchool and dated for 4 years. She broke up with me because she needed "independence" but yet started dating another guy a couple months later. I hated her for several months and even forgot her and then we started talking. After a couple months of talking we started hanging out and both of us could feel the chemistry and even talked about it but decided against it because we were leaving for college in about a month after we talked about it. But now when we talk and hang out its hard not to flirt and show affection to each other. But she has had a boyfriend through all of this time and has just recently broken up with him. I know I still love her and I know she still loves me but I don't know if it would be fair to me to get back into that relationship again. Not to mention all of my friends and family are against it and do not like her. I need some advice as what to do. I'm not sure what to do and I'd appreciate some advice.
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reader, Toria +, writes (25 September 2006):
 I've always believed that everyone within reason deserves a second chance and if i was in the situation your in right now I would go for it as if I didn't I would always wonder what I have missed out on and if I lost my chance with the person I love.
The only thing that does concern me is she was talking with you about whether you both should get back together, flirting with and showing affection to you when all the time she was with someone and in my eyes I've always classed that as cheating in some way.
Good luck :o)
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