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writes:I was dumped by a girl I had been seeing for 2 months last week. She said it was because she still loved her previous b/f. She knows she can't go back to him but said if we stayed together she couldn't have feelings for me until she sorted her head out. She said she needed time to achieve this. The following day she phoned me to ask how I was. I thought this to be strange, she said she wanted to remain friends though.Question: Is she keeping the door ajar? Should I phone or text her to see how she is, or leave her to contact me if she feels like it?
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reader, Lady tinks +, writes (29 March 2007):
 If i were you i would move on. She obviously has issues that she doesn't know how to handle and is confusing you in the process. If she was feeling like this then why did she start the relationship with you? Its not fair to just leave you hanging. Go out and find someone who will give you the full love and attention you deserve. All the best hun x x
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reader, chelychel  +, writes (29 March 2007):
I understand if she hasent gotten over her ex. It sounds like she is keeping the door open, bc if she didnt want to date you then she would just break up with you instead. I'd say give her time, sounds like she's trying to be honest with you about her emotions. Still be friendly.
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