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writes:I'm worried that eventually I may lose interest in one of my best friends. I see her all the time. At very least I see her every weekend. I stay the night with her at her grandmas all the time, but sometimes I just can't stand to be around her. Her cell phone is her life. One month she ran the bill up to $600 and it was shut off for 2 days. She cried like a baby when it was shut off. She's only 14 and she's already slept with 2 guys, one she slept with just because she thought he was hot. She was telling me that she stayed at her friends house and they were up walking around the neighborhood at 4:00 AM. She walks place she knows she's not supposed to go and she gets caught almost every time she does it, you think she would have learned her lesson by now. It's just these things that really piss me off about her. I don't know why. But do you think eventually I'll grow to hate her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2010): If shes your friend you should try ro help her. Best friends can get annoying sometimes. But if shes doing something thats dangerous then try talking to her and letting her know that you're concerned. That might not help but you can try.:]
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2010): well, that's a tough question and I think you should grow to hate her as a last resort. Sleeping with two guys at fourteen is just stupid, alright? She has a seriously messed up life and either doesn't know or doesn't want to get out of it. I think, first, talk to her about it and never back down, be gentle, and don't be afraid. Always listen first, then explain your side and your thoughts. If you can share it on the web, you can share it woth your "friend".
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