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anonymous
writes:theres women i work with who i have grown to like alot we hang around together at dinner seen her a few times out of work.loads of people tell me they can she likes me and i think she does toothing is she has bf and never made a move, i told her i really like her and all she said was good that you feel that way and sometimes flips from hot and cold with meshe texts me a smiley face now and then first thing in the morning had a few days off work and texts me asking how i am etc then when am back at work non stop talking to meweekend came so i asked her out she said she doesnt feel right while bf is a workand know seems cold with me and ignoring me its driving me mad are these mind games as iam sure she likes me and people have said shes not happy at home what shall i do?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (16 November 2010):
 Did it ever occur to you that she's being nice to you? If she liked you don't you think she would have dumped her boyfriend for you by now?
I suggest you ignore what your co-workers it's nothing but office garb, respect the fact this woman has a boyfriend, stop asking her out because you don't want to look any more love struck than you already are. Instead, engage in some casual dating and quietly bid your time when they break up. If she's truly not happy then it's only a matter of time.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (16 November 2010):
 Don't put her in the awkward situation where she feels like she's cheating on her boyfriend. There's little you can do except offer, and face rejection. She needs to decide what to do about her current relationship before she does anything with you.
If you'd like to get some alone time with her outside of work, I'd suggest a lunch date. It is a lot less intimidating than dinner, and can be done under the pretext of work.
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