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writes:My better half has been separated for a couple of years and is now at the point where the divorce will finally be settled (within the next few weeks). This has been taking a bit of a toll on our relationship and although I have been doing everything I can to be considerate and understanding, I am finding that she is becoming more and more distant.She has been putting off a trip to visit a cousin for a few weeks and finally decided to go this weekend. I do not know this cousin and even if she exists. All I know is that my g/f left town on a train this afternoon and as she left she sent me a message that ended "... my dear love that I adore."I sent her a reply wishing her a good trip and sending her my love. However, her phone has been switched off all day now and she still has not received the message (it is 2am here).Should I be concerned?
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reader, R71 +, writes (24 February 2008):
R71 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI would like to avoid snooping at all costs as I think this leads down an ugly path. Still, today I have heard nothing from her... she is due back this evening and I know that she picked up a message of mine asking when she would be coming home.
To answer the question "Why did you write? What doesn't fit" posed in the first response:
I have never felt entirely sure of her sentiments. She "tells" me she loves me in text messages, letters etc but this love is never shown through physical contact (hugs etc) and she finds it difficult to say.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (24 February 2008):
 I think you should not be unduly concerned about her .She does not want you to disturb her peace of mind. She wants to be left alone.Think positive and just go on living your life.
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