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writes: I'm in love with this girl, but she's seeing an older man. Since she's been seeing him stuff has happened between me and her, but she said she loves me more than she does him, but she cant have a relationship with me, in case she hurts me. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2007): here is one fact of life that everyone should learn because no matter what you believe, its true: All people have evil inside them, and most of them are CHEATS. people are insensitive to others feelings, as human beings have been programmed from the beginning of time to fight for "survival of the fittest" and this leds to them trampling over, and using ,ANYONE and EVERYONE. this girl seems like a user. if she really loved you then why is she not with you in the first place? why did she not jump at the chance to go out with you and finish with her boyfriend? some may answer "breaking up with somsone is hard" or "she may love both you and her current boyfriend" , but truth be told is it really true love if you love two epople and are not willing to sacrifice the feelings of hurt you may feel for breaking up for the ultimate good of everyone. i mean in the long run if she loves you then she should want to be with you and not him, which should equate to breaking up with him and being with you. if she is not going to break up with him then she obviously loves him more. move on, and find someone who actually loves you and is not just a user. find someone real.. althought chances of finding someone completely real is very slim...."life is shit and then you die" i guess should be the real truth people should learn.
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reader, kirsty2hot +, writes (13 July 2005):
She obviously isn't a faithful girlfriend and if you go out with her she will end up hurting you as in cheating on you.You may think there is no other girl in the world you want, you will find one in time, try and just be friends with this girl
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reader, becky05 +, writes (13 July 2005):
She trying to let you down gently. She won't leave this older man for you. Get on with your life.
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