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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:We met a year ago. She was (and still is) the only person outside my family who ever accepted me for I am. We quickly became very close friends. We would spend the whole day just enjoying each other's company. What we had was something special. I had never been happier. It wasn't too long before I fell in love with her. And even though I'm not sure of it I think she may have had something for me too. I was too good to last. As soon as my mom found out about her she never allowed me to see her again. We tried several attempts to meet secretly but they all failed. Eventually my mom just took away everything possible method of contacting her from me. I honestly don't why but she wants nothing more than to make sure we're separated forever. I tried looking to some of my family and friends for support but all of them sided with my mom instead. After a while I just pretended I had forgetten about her but I can't do it. She was my first love. I can't bare to move on. And even if I could move on, because of a situation I'm in it isn't even possible for me to find someone else. I believe in my heart we can be together someday but I still feel confused. What should I do?
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reader, Andy00  +, writes (7 August 2007):
 I feel like there is more to this than you're saying. Other than the fact that you're very young, I hear no reason why she wouldn't allow you both to be together. There must be a reason for her to go to such drastic measures to keep you both apart, and there must be reasons why all your family side with her.Anyway, that said. I agree with Helen. You should sit down and talk to your mum.
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reader, Helen1986 +, writes (7 August 2007):
 Your mum is just looking out for your best interests, she doesnt realise how much she is hurting you. Sit her down and have a heart to heart ( not a tantrum ). Explain how you feel tell her how you feel nobody outside your family really excepts you apart from this one girl, that makes you feel special and normal.
Promise your mum that if she lets you see her you will still complete all your chores and homework and you will be on your best behaviour. Tell your mum you respect her and you appreiciate all she is trying to do but tell her you need a friend, some one who really cares that is outside the family.
good luck xxx
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