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She wants to leave the relationship but hasn't done a thing to make things better

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Question - (6 May 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 May 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

What am I to do with my girlfriend?

I'm sorry but I hardly ask for advice. But me and my girlfriend have been fighting constantly for a while now. She says she wants to leave but the funny thing is that she hasn't lifted a finger to save our relationship. She always put her friends first (I hate that). She is very unappreciative (the little things woman like she doesn't appreciate). And she wants to leave?? I mean I have tried to fix our relationship but ohh no going to parties and talking to her stupid friends was more important than talkig things out with me!! So what am I to do?

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (6 May 2010):

chigirl agony auntWhy would she try and make things better when she obviously doesn't want to stay in the first place? You try and work on a relationship when you don't want to let go. You don't try and make it work when you don't want to be in said relationship.

She wants out, and it sounds like you agree that you can find someone better for you.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (6 May 2010):

chigirl agony auntWhy would she try and make things better when she obviously doesn't want to stay in the first place? You try and work on a relationship when you don't want to let go. You don't try and make it work when you don't want to be in said relationship.

She wants out, and it sounds like you agree that you can find someone better for you.

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A female reader, veronika Australia +, writes (6 May 2010):

veronika agony auntWell, it's obvious she doesn't care about the relationship, so that's obviously why she hasn't "lifted a finger" to save it. She doesn't want to save it.

Just let her go, you deserve better than someone who doesn't give a crap.

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A female reader, Br0wn18 United States +, writes (6 May 2010):

Br0wn18 agony auntObviously you love her, and your trying but if she loved/cared for you she'd care about your feelings and maybe she just wants to do her own thing. She's not obligated to be with you she wants to live life, she's running over you and I think you need somebody who will make you happy.

- Married or not.

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