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writes:I recently went on a "Lads" holiday to Ibiza. There was 12 of us! All in all it was an amazing two weeks!Now the complicated bit..My best friend is a girl who i've known for nearly 4 years. She's got the best personality i've ever known from a girl, and love her to bits as a friend. I can't imaigne not having her as a friend!She was out in Ibiza for a week with a group of her girl mates. We flew out on her 2nd week out there, and we all met up on my first night.Later in the night, myself and her ended up kissing (For the first time since ive met her..)... and we considered having sex but I put it off.It's kinda given me mixed feelings about her now, not knowing whether i do like her as more than a friend, and i'm not sure how she feels..She took a picture of us kissing, but a couple of days ago she said she threw it away because it "Made her feel weird.." What does that mean? I didn't wanna ask questions, because it felt like a really sore subject at the time.Since we kissed, things have seemed a little weird between us as well, and we havent been as close as we were.
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reader, Rachelann960739  +, writes (24 August 2007):
You have only been friends with her and maybe she is confused about how you feel about her.You have to talk to her and ask her how she fells about you. The things is if things don't work out then you would lose a great friend. So best advise just ask her how she fells about you and go from there.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (24 August 2007):
 I don't think any of us can get inside of her head, so you should probably get up the nerve to sit her down and ask her straight out. She must have had some kind of feelings for you to have kissed you and considered initiating sex. Perhaps she is pulling back because she isn't seeing you make a move to the next step. She may be backing off because she doesn't want to lose your friendship. Nothing will happen if you don't get up the nerve to ask, BUT be prepared to make a declaration of love (or at least, Let's take this to the next level) if you care- it may be the thing she's fishing for. If she is close to anyone else, use your connections and pry. Sneaky, very grade school, but effective. Hope things work out for you and Best of Luck.
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