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writes:hi guys,after 4 years i meet a highschool friend(female) in my college. she got admitted newly. i know she has a bf,when i asked her, she admits it too. she started texting me,we become close now. during our school days, we never talk to each other. now we text each other everyday. if i dnt reply her soon, she used to ask if m busy. we talk about normal stuffs like what we are up to,what we are gonna do today. we text each other till we sleep. it seems like she talk but doesn't do texting with her bf. when i told her that if my gf keep texting to another guy,i'll think she is cheating me. then she told me that if i find it uncomfortable , she will stop texting me. i told her that m not saying it is uncomfortable. if i'm uncomfortable, why would i text to you like i am doing now. i am kind of confused. she sometimes ask to come to watch drama , or any function with her. i think she knows that i like her too, as her friends tease me with her name. any suggestion?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok....thanx mandy....i find if uncomfortable texting and talking to her in this way.....
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (23 February 2012):
 HI
Sounds like she is not happy with her relationship, and finds you mentally stimulating, someone she can really talk to. I agree I dont think she should be texting you all the time like this whilst in a relationship, as this is unfair to her BF. I would ask her if she is happy? if she is I would back off, as this could cause you problems if her BF finds the messages. If he knows about it and is ok with her texting you, then I guess its down to you if you want this to continue.
Mandy x
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