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*eemin
writes:i need help cause my head is bugging right now. to start off. i met this girl at my friends birthday. we knew each other at that moment. we connected a lot. after that event i got her number from my friend. we started texting the next day ( texting is very usual here ). she always text me everyday. we were getting really close and she knew that i liked her. and i know too that she like me. we always make sweet text responses to each other. so there on we texted for a couple of weeks now. then there is this thing that happened after her class. we were supposed to hang out since we set it that date off. but then she texted me very late and said that to cancel of the date since its meaningless cause she need to go home early because she needs to study and promises me to hang out next time. I got fustrated and my mood for texting her changed but i didnt let her know in a show off way. i still texted her some sweet and we kept the conversation when texting still sincere. then the next day she didnt text me. until the next day. its been 3 days now that she havent texted me and its bugging me. in fact we even see each other online in messengers and facebook but she doesnt message me so due to that i dont message her. im starting to think maybe that this girl is thinking that i should text her first and she's playing hard to get or maybe she's losing interest in me. please guide me here
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reader, leemin +, writes (16 July 2010):
leemin is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you. maybe i should wait for her to text me soon.
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reader, Inallhonesty...  +, writes (16 July 2010):
 It seems to me that she may be playing hard to get. You've become too available to her. And while all the sweet texts messages are cute, it takes away the natural thrill of the chase. Personally, I think all the games are pointless and I just wouldn't waste my time with someone who plays them, but if you'd really like to feel this girl out and see where her head is at, just give her some space. Fall back on the texts messages for awhile. Go on with your business on facebook as if she's not even online. If she's really interested, you'll hear from her again. Believe me, she'll notice that she's not hearing from you as often as usual. On the other hand, if you don't hear from her, then it's a good idea to just move on. Good luck and I hope this helped...
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