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writes:Well hey there.This all started about 3 weeks ago.There's this girl that literally lives across my work.For the first week we've been looking at eachother and smiling and all, and then I've decided to make the first move.Started talking to her, laughing with her.Then in the end of the second week we (co worker and me) have asked her to come over to my work and chat for a bit. (Co worker's trying to help me, don't worry.)She had stayed 'till 3 AM and we've been laughing and all.We've exchanged phone numbers and have texted eachother a fair bit, saying how fun it was and all.Then a few days later I came over to her house when I was done at work (midnight), and stayed there talkin to her 'till about 3AM, also.Texted eachother after this.Then, the next day I see her going somewhere with some guy (she lives across my work, so I can basically stalk and spy on her and all. =P) and see pictures of it on her 'myspace' later.Was some kind of event.This was the last day before she went on vacation. Since then she's not been talking to me.I've called her trying to ask if she wanted to do something fun that night, but no answer.To I texted her asking that, bt no reply either.Texted her the next day saying have a nice holiday, but nothing.Now, five days later, I've messaged her on myspace asking her how she is and that I hope everything's allright there and she's having fun and all.She's just ignoring me.She HAS logged in though, since she's commenting other people.I'm totally confused. It just popped from the one to the other.First she always texted me and all, now she just stopped.She's on vacation too, so I can't see her at her house, and we don't greet eachother no more.Now my question is, what is she doing? Am I clinging onto her too much? I've totally lost it. I don't know what to do.Any help appreciated. Thank you in advance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI understand. Thank you all.
I guess it's no contact then.
We'll see what'll come from that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2009): Don't text her again. If she likes you, she will get in contact with you now. You've shown her you're interested, the ball is in her court.
Seriously, though, not cool, the whole, I can basically stalk her thing, she will most definately ignore you if you act too keen, don't forget, play the game, its not fun when its easy!
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (17 July 2009):
 I think that she's a lost cause. Let her go before she starts calling you a stalker or something stupid.
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reader, Jason32477 +, writes (17 July 2009):
 I would pretty much agree with JasonX on this.She is on vacation probably having fun with guys being single and does not want to be bothered with the guy back home.If she really cared about you she would have found a way to stay in touch.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2009): Seems like you are being fair in texting her, but if she hasn't responded to you by now then I think that says enough. I guess my last suggestion would be to message her on myspace and ask her if she has gotten your txts. If you don't get a response then I think that makes things pretty clear. Ofc she may lie and say that she's lost her cell...which also may not be a lie but hmm I'm sure you can't help but be suspicious. Either way leave her alone for the summer, go about doing your own thing and go date other girls and stuff. I'm sure it aint as convenient but do something to take yur mind off her for now. No sense in being wrapped up in girl that u have no communication with. Right?
Good luck bro
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