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She says she'll have a better time at the club if I'm not around!

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Question - (8 October 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 8 October 2010)
A male Saint Vincent and the Grenadines age 51-59, *pat writes:

What would yo tink if the person you are dating for the last 4 months is adamant that she will have a better time at a club/party if you are not around, and that i should find it "sexy" if she come back and tells me about how much fun she had.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2010):

Its call space or clingy whichever you choose to use. Your problem is trust and people need to still live their life he if you’re in a relationship. I bet you would have a better time at a party if she wasn't there. I was married and my wife always complain that I didn't take her out as much as she liked. I had to work so I told her to grab a friend and just go. I had something cause trust. You should look that one up your relationship will be better between the two of you. Give the girl her space and let her have some independence from you. Hell she said she would even tell you what she did, yet you still think you need to breath down her throat.

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A male reader, ScottsCove United States +, writes (8 October 2010):

ScottsCove agony auntWhat is there about "more fun without you" that you don't understand ?

Which part of that is difficult for you ?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2010):

i think that u should spy on her as you never know why she dosent want you there

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2010):

That's wrong. Your girlfriend sounds like a complete b*tch. What you really need to do is break up with her, tell her she can go have all the fun without she that she wants.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2010):

ashamed to be seen with you,or hiding from her past,my ex was the same it was about his past didnt want me to find out the truth about him jerk

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (8 October 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntNo i dont think that this is right at all, it sounds like your girlfriend doesnt want to be seen with you. Ok its fair enough if every once and again she goes out with her friends and you do the same as this is only healthy in a relationship, but you still need to go out partying or clubbing together.

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