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36-40,
*azednconfsed
writes:Basically I've been having this on and off relationship with someone for over a year now. The problem is she was/is in a long distance relationship with someone from another country that she only sees once a year. He was her first b/f, practically first everything. She's very contradictive of whatever she says and it seems like she can't make her up mind. within the last year shes broken up with him twice..shes been single for the last 6 months but just got back with him recently..and whenver we stop talking, she'll eventually come back and she says she really likes me and knows i'm here, but she still loves that guy and says she can't get over him. So what should i do?
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (14 November 2008):
 I don't want to hurt you, but I don't think that this girl is in a position to give her heart to you right now. I'm sure you're wonderful, but I think that she is being contradictive because she loves that man, but doesn't know if things are ever going to work out with him. That's the problem with long distance relationships, both people have to invest all the energy of their hearts in order for them to work out. I think that she loves him, but a relationship would work because you're more THERE than that other guy. You deserve someone whose heart isn't torn like this... be a friend to her, but keep your eyes open.
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