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*cion12
writes:I was recently dating a girl I worked with from my store, we were together for a couple of months, and then I broke it off cause she was coming on really strong and told me she was falling for me, I told her we should take it slower. So, we were talking for months after and when i asked her to be my girlfriend again she wasn't sure and told me she needed some space. So, I gave her some space and it seemed like she was moving herself away from me, when I told her, I was in love with her she then told me that she didn't feel the same and just wants to be friends and wants to go back with her ex-boyfriend, who she had known most of her life, but cheated on her twice. I really care for her and want to be with her, but I'm also afraid of her getting hurt by her ex-boyfriend because she doesn't deserve that. What do I do? how do I cope with the rejection? and how do I show her I'm a better person than him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2007): Well do whatever she did when you broke up with her. It seems to have worked on you. And cope with the rejection the same way she coped with it.
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reader, loveNbasketball  +, writes (11 August 2007):
 Scion12,You can't do anything to change her mind by telling her you're better than him. Talk is cheap in this case (no offense to your bank statements) so follow an old cliche and show her through actions. She rejected you as a boyfriend, but not necessarly as a friend. As much as you can, talk to her and try to be yourself without coming on too strong. Yes, she'll still know you have feelings for her, but she won't try and run away from you when all you have to offer is a shoulder to lean on when needed and friendly advice. If she just sees you as a friend, then maybe she'll reconsider her decision.And how to deal with it? Keep yourself busy! Hope this helps!loveNbasketball
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2007): Do somthing so phenominal and sweet...it works 98% of the time tell her how u truly feel and give her a good long speach. Tell her shes better than this lowlife boy who has cheated on her and deserves better [but dont imply that ur better cuz girls hate that trust me] become stronger friends and if it dosnt work move on and try to forget about her.
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