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writes:My girlfiend and I have been together for a year, and due to financial issues, she claimed she couldn't afford birth control. For two months she's supposedly been off birth control, but she confessed today that she has been taking birth control, and has been holding back as far as sex for 2 months. I have been faithful during that whole time. Should I be Angry? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008): maybe she didn't know how to tell you she wasn't wanting to have sex, like not in the mood ofr A MILLION different reasons, don't shun her for it, somethings are hard to tell your insignifagint other. instead tell her you can tell you anything and get her trust in you! it's a scarry thing for a girl to put all their trust and communication into someone..
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reader, Minelisse  +, writes (2 January 2008):
 If you are not angry why would you choose to be? Don't! However, you should have a conversation with her and try to understand where she is coming from and the reasons for holding back sex and not telling you what was really happening. Honesty is really important in a relationship, take this time to know her better and grow as a couple.
Good luck!
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