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writes:Hi, I have a brief but none the less personally important question. I've been dating my current gf for about 6 months now. At first we would find things to talk about without much of a problem, but after the first couple of months it started to feel to me that we didn't have much to talk about. She is not very responsive most of the time during conversations, and doesn't really initiate them herself. It feels hard for me to find topics to talk about for some reason and I was just wondering if I'm reading too much into this and what can I do to get conversations rolling again.Thank you very much for your help! Reply to this Question
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (23 August 2007):
 I was once married to a guy like this and I wish I would've seen the signs earlier in the relationship. I eventually got very bored because I never felt challenged by him since he never had two words to say; he never opened up about things, never shared things etc. It's all a matter of individual choice, but the relationship eventually fell flat because I got tired of doing all the talking and felt emotionally starved for communication.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2007): there is a term...golden silence....when two people are comfortable being together without talking and having to fill in those ackwared silences, it means they have reached a new level in their relationship
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