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writes: My girlfriend received a call the other day from a guy who she used to go out with for like a year. He was sent off to Iraq and when he got back, he broke up with her. She was devastated because she waited on him for like 6 months.After receiving the call which only lasted like 2 minutes because he was in jail, she called me and told me about it. I had asked her what she felt when she heard from him and she said that she wasn't going to lie to me. That she felt happy and missed him. I don't know how to react to this. She had told me that she doesn't love him and is over him. That she wants to be with me. Then started crying since she thought I didn't believe her. What should I do?
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reader, pops +, writes (28 August 2005):
Either you trust her or you don't. Put the shoes on your own feet. How would you react if you took the courage to tell your gf about a past gf calling you, and told her you were over the other girl and wanted only her, but she questioned your truthfulness? Wouldn't that be emotional upsetting to you? Give her a break. I don't read that she ran down to the jail to post his bail. She's over him. Be glad she had whatever experience with him. She learned what she did not like, and picked you.
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (28 August 2005):
 Okay so she gets a call and is really happy? She misses him and was happy to hear from him? Nice to know she was honest about it. You know what..he will call again and she will be happy again and then she will get confused. She waited 6 months for this guy then he dumped her. My advice is if you really love this girl...wait and see if she backs up her talk with action. Maybe she will....I wish you guys the best. If it is really bothering you...then sit and talk to her about your insecurities with the issues.
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