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writes:I like one of my close friends, she is everything i'm looking for in a girl, and i think i might luv her. but the only thin holding me back is that when i asked her out, she said her guy friends are either "jus friends" or "dating friends",at that poitn i was in the 1stone, but lately, i think i'm getting moved to the 2nd one.I really like her, but her and my bro have history. While i was deciding on whether to ask her out or not, at a party, her and my bro made out, and went a little further. they didn't have sex, but 1 of his friends told me dat she made out with him and gave him a handjob. I don't think they did anything else, but this really does bother me still. I like her still, and i dunno what to do? I think thats another reason she wouldn't date me too. This happened 4 months ago, and during the past month, her and i have went ondates, and idk if i wanna keepgoing, I really like her,but i can't get over what happened.Do I ask my brother what all happened? or do i just throw away her friendship? Although her nad i have gone on dates, we don't talk nearly as much as we used to.
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reader, beanie0216 +, writes (11 April 2007):
 Ok, well I think you should talk to your brother and ask him if he still has feelings for her. Tell him you like her and you want to go out with her. Depending on what your brother says, I think you and the girl should get to know each other more and go on more dates. Maybe one day bring up that you've been enjoying her company and that you like her, and ask her out. (When you think the right time is) Good Luck!!
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