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writes: Dear Friends,it's the first time i am feeling weak in my life, i don't say i am a superman, but till now i was controling everything in life. i thought initiatly perhaps naively that i would not fall in love simply because this special girl just don't exist and i resigned myself just to lead a single life and to cater for my family. but you see i just fell in love with this heaven looking girl and the problem is that she is in love with some other guy and told me she don't love me. i really tried my best to forget her indulge myself in many projects i am working very hard / but it seems that i still can't forget it sound silly isn't it but i just can't forget her/ i just want some advise before something terrible happens to me.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008): let go mate i know the feelings you are going throuh it's no good if they dont you love. they will in time betray the love you have for them. let go move on someone will open a door for you look back and smile
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): Hey, I understand the exact feeling... you feel like you want to die for that person and you would do anything to prove how much they mean to you... you cry at the thought of them hating you and u smile at the thought of them giving a damn... it kills... Im in the exact situation exept for the fact im a woman... You should NEVER give up EVER... Always have hope no matter what if that person means alot... good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2008): I'm no expert but in the same situation; is there an answer? I don't think there is accept to just feel the pain. I'm trying to be her friend despite this guy being a total ass to her day and night because no one else is there for her. Maybe she will never want to be with me but because I love her the way I do I just need to try and help her no matter what. He sets conditions on his feelings for her so I refuse to do the same; I love her unconditionally.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2007): hey! I found this page because I needed advice on the exact same problem :) The feelings I have for this girl are preciously rare and I'm not gonna give up on them. Love is special and you don't go through life feeling it often enough to ever give up on. This girl I like is with someone else at the moment, but hey I'm just gonna be myself, not try to hard and hopefully one day we will be together. You can't force anything though, and ultimately, if its meant to be, it will be... Be yourself, be confident and relaxed, and don't force anything. Take care mate :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2007): Hi There,
I too went through this phase.You are not alone there are thousands.Still it comes back to haunt when I am in solitude.Let me tell you.Its over and you got to move on.The more you try to do something about it the more sick you feel.I know it kills self esteem.
Tip:Think of how you used to be before you met her.Try to return to the same state that you were before you met her.To be in love with someone who didnt love you is just infatuation.Time will heal it all.You definitely find someone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2007): Omg same stuff just happend to me here recently.. I did the same things became a workaholic and what not but hey not sugar coated like these gals in here put it at all she will be in your heart like mine is but keep on keepin on bro we all go thru this at one point or another it sucks I know but we must keep marching in hope that we find someone who could share our love once again..Against the world against all odds we will stand up again!~Mabus~
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2007): i know what you mean ..... i met this guy that i loved and still do i dated him and we broke up and i want him back hes dating one of my "friends" well we where but now we are not anymore infact we hate eachother .....anyways he doesnt love me but im madly inlove with him and theres nothing i can do just like theres nothing you can do....just pray to have hope because if you 2 where meant to be you would be together dont give up and never say to yourself that its over and you give up because then you never really loved her ....think about how shes feeling and understand how shes feeling its hard for her to its not like she wants to hurt you but just like you shes inlove but if you guys were meant to be she will fall out of love with that guy and go to you....just remember dont over burdan yourself over one person dont do everyhting just to impress her make her fall inlove with you not someoneelse that she thinks is you trust me i know what im talking about :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2006): If you really are feeling this badly I would seriously consider you to seek some kind of councilling.
I'm not quite sure what you are meaning by "something terrible happening to you." I would hope you are not suggesting any kind of self destruction.
No one on earth is worth that!
It seems difficult now for you I'm certain..and we have all suffered sorrow and loss when it comes to Love. Give yourself some time. She will probably always be in your heart but she has obviously made her choice. You want someone worthy of your Love! Try and be patient with the emotional roller coaster you are riding,and seek some help!
Best of Luck to you!
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (11 January 2006):
 If by "something terrible" you mean suicide please call for help! There are suicide help lines in every state and they can help you through these difficult times. Though I feel uncomfortable giving any advice on your situation because I am worried about what could happen if my advice failed, you can try this website there are many people that will help you get through this http://www.befrienders.org. Good luck.
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reader, lizabeth +, writes (11 January 2006):
i don't no how long ago you split but trust me you will get over her. i can't help you forget her cause basically you never will, but i can help you get over her if my advice is for you. take lots of soothing baths, be with family regularly, take long walks to think and face up to things, think about all the negative things about her not the positives, and the best cure for a broken heart is laughter. go out with your friends and have a laugh. the worst part of getting over somebody is seeing them whilst your in the process. but believe me im sorry to say but it happens. my best advise is chill out and hang with good friends and don't think about her whilst your having fun. she will come off your mind while your with your mates, trust. hope ive helped x x x x
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