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writes: Im stuck between rock and hard place.An update on my situation (my girlfriend and son left me while i was at work)is im seeing my son often.But im rearranging everything to fit in her schedule that she doesn`t want to explain. Im trying to help and give support but then she goes the complete opposite wavelength, for a couple of days late. I love her, but im starting to feel that i can`t trust her unless she trusts me. My son loves cars and motor-bikes, but lately he knows he`s going from her to me.Which is taking its toll on all of us. My rent is paid til end of January and if i ask her if should be keeping the house til then or more she says yes. She visits to drop my son off and uses the phone the whole time(sometimes hours) and eats what ever she can.Do i keep tryin to help or cos it seems like shes using me,do i say no more anything?
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reader, Katylouise +, writes (11 October 2006):
you do have to tread carefully as she might threaten to not let you see your son. Ask her if she can use the phone a bit less as your struggling with the phone bill and as for food ask her why she hasnt already eaten.
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