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male
age
36-40,
*trainer
writes:I have been in a relationship with my partner now for nearly 10 yrs (in September). We have been living together for 7 years and I had a house from before we met and for obviuos reasons she didnt want to move into that with me as she wanted to get our hosue together.Finally last year we bought a house together, it needs a lot of work as we are currently living without a functional kitchen ( we have got a Kitchen Sink and that is all in the Kitchen).The house needs major renovation but we cannot afford to do it up so are doing things gradually and I think she is getting fed up as she keeps on complaining and arguing about little things.We are saving money to do the kitchen up and that is going to cost about £20,000 which will take us upto 12 months to save for and she keeps on arguing with me and then shuts me out for days only good morning and then sitting in the other room.I have tried to bring up conversation and stay positive but I think it is affecting me as my confidence is beggining to get drained now and I am thinking whether our relationship is as solid as I thought it was.How can I cheer her up without making her feel like I am wasting money as our belts are very tight
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2012): She sounds like she likes having her own way which is typical of a woman maybe she's regretting buying this house that needs ai much work doing to it and doesn't want to say anything her shutting you out is not being fair to you just sit her down and try to resolve it or separate there's def something going on maybe she's not happy anymore or just stressed because of the house good luck
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