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*Lindy87
writes:so I had this friend who I became good friends with. She met this guy and he and her hit it off. I was so happy for her. You see, i'm 22 and my friend is 19. Her boyfriend is 18. well, months went on and she stopped talking to ALL her friends. Then she cut off contact completely, changed her number, deleted all but her family and her boyfriend on facebook, changed schools,basically changed her entire life with no notice to any of her friends who care about her. I can see someone doing this if their friends were bad people, but I'm not and her other friends aren't either. I really liked my friendship with her,she was tons of fun and such a sweet girl.well I hadn't heard from her in six months. I recently searched for her on facebook and saw that she is now engaged, I can't see much of her profile because she had deleted me but her statuses are like "I only need my love!!! No one else, he is all I need in life".it sounds so extreme. a lot of her statuses say things along those lines. ok,and maybe I should mind my own business, but it creeps me out. I don't think its healthy that she threw her friends out the window. I'm worried her fiance is controlling about her friends.am i just being paranoid?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (20 March 2010):
No, you're not being paranoid. But it's no longer your problem. I know that sounds harsh, but if she has cut you and everyone else including her family out of her life, then this is something that you need to move on from. Sometimes, people have to make mistakes. Your friend is making a huge one. But she has to make it and face the consequences alone. For whatever reason, she has done this. Whether it was her or her boyfriend who decided it, this has happened. I know you're worried, and you're a good person for worrying. But there is nothing you can do about it. She has to make her own decisions. Move on from her. If she needs you, she will come.
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