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writes:Hello,I need some advice. I'm currently married but somewhat unhappy with the way things are going right now. However I met a friend awhile back and we became real close. When I say close I mean we had sexual intercourse. We both enjoyed our session and we even became closer. She knew about my situation but the attraction was too strong. Not to long ago she ran into her ex and they hit it off and ended up getting back together. But at the same time she still thinks about me a lot. I was shocked to find out that she had got back with her ex. It kind of caught me off guard. Touch a little bit....yeah. When I spoke to her I believe she thought I was making a big deal about her situation. Which I wasn't. I don't know if I pushed her away a little bit. She feels that i will never leave my woman so she most likely will stay with her man. If this happens we most likely still will do what we were doing before. I love my wife but something is not there. I want to make sure if this other woman is the one. We both have mutual feelings for each other. However I know in my mind I am not going to leave my lady and she will most likely stay with her man now. She knows my situation and I believe she wanted to be with me but she figured I wasn't leave my wife. So she decided to get with her ex. I know once we see each other again we may end up doing something. So what should I do? Also if I made her upset with my comments even though i wasn't mad...just shocked. What can I do to win her back if that is the case?Thanks
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 January 2010):
This other woman is not the one, simple as that. The 'one' is your wife. You love her, yet something is missing? Well find out what is missing and fix it. Marriages aren't easy. They take work. So go home and work on your marriage. If you leave your wife for this other women, the same thing is likely to happen. Go home to your wife and work on your marriage
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe thing is she is telling me now that still wants to see me. I'm not a coward just a confused man and I guess she is confused herself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2010): first of all i think you are a coward for not respecting the fact that u are married and not ending the relationship in a decent way. For the other woman what goes around comes around thats what u get for cheating on your wife
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (28 January 2010):
 Why do you want to win her back? If you are not going to leave your wife, then you have already chosen who is more important to you, so do the right thing by the other woman and allow her get on with her life. I can understand you want her, can;t help how you feel, but if you really loved her, then you would want what is best for her, and that does not include a long protracted affair.
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