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She doesn't want me to give her oral... how can I change her mind?

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Question - (10 September 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 September 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *eanVibe writes:

Hi, I've been going out with my girlfriend for nearly a year, i am her first sexual partner and we have sex often but she doesn't want me to go down on her because she says that she doesnt like the smell when i kiss her after, but i really love doing it.

Is their any tips to change her mind about it?

Thanks xx

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (11 September 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntYou know if it takes a Dixie cup and a travel size mouthwash on your nightstand then so be it. Gotta do what you gotta do.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2010):

Dont force her, she'll get comfortable with the idea eventually. Guys are usually ready for this kind of thing, and dont choke her!!!

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (10 September 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntLol, well unless you have a little mouthwash by your bed to swish real quick after giving her oral, then it may be a little while before she changes her mind. As gross as it sounds, we let our men give us oral then continue kiss them afterwards. Hey, I smell great down there..and I make sure I'm squeaky clean when it's time to get down and dirty. Here's a few tips for your girl if she doesn't like the smell..use Summer's Eve Feminine body wash in the shower, she can use douche, I maybe do it once a month just to flush it out, and if she needs a quick fix Vagisil makes these great feminine wipes. All this is located by the tampons and condom aisle in your local drugstore. Hope this helps!

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (10 September 2010):

The Realist agony auntYou could try getting a piece of gum right after or just taking a drink of something to get rid of it. Its pretty easy to solve and I'm sure she enjoys oral and if you do this it should solve the problem.

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