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writes:Hey, I have this friend who I'm really close with. A year ago we dated for about a month and became close friends after we split up. We are very good friends to the point where we can talk about pretty much anything to each other comfortably. About a week ago, we were hooking up for a few days and really starting to get back into each other very much. At the time when we were hooking up, we decided it was best to remain friends and not date, but I really have some strong feelings for her now. Only problem is, she's dating someone right now. I really want to get back together with her, but I feel like I've lost my chance. Another thing is, she has a lot of other guys calling her, but none of them are close friends with her. I really wanna be with her, I feel like she is the only person who can really understand me and accept me for who I am, even after all I've been through with her, which is quite a lot. Someone help me out here lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2007): (I posted this question) -- I probably should have been a little clearer when posting this.. It's not so much the asking her out part that's troubling me, it's more deciding whether I should be with her or just remain very close friends.. half of me really wants to be with her again since we have been through so much together, but the other half is telling me to stay friends because she is promiscuous. It's kind of complicated.. When she dates someone, she will like them a lot, but still cheat on them.. when we dated, she didn't chat on me, because I've asked her on many occasions and honestly, I believe her because she has never lied to me about anything before. But at the time we were dating, she had only had sex with one other guy, and she wasn't promiscuous at all really. If we date again and she cheats on me, honestly, I think it would ruin all of my trust for her, but I love her so much and I don't care about any other girls except her.. i need advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2007): Okay, wait for her to break up with her currant boyfriend, and then be the one to comfort her and listen to what she has to say. Because she will seek comfort in the first person she sees. So make sure its you! When she has gotten over him, you tell her how you feel. And she will remember all the times you have been there for her. And that will mean more than anything to her, honestly. But sometime you have got to tell her how you feel when you are both single. Because you have one chance, one life. And who knows, this might be the girl who you are meant to spend your life with! I wish you so much luck! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2007): k heres what you do. wait till she breaks up with this boyfriend. (trust me it will happen eventually) and then when she does get together with her and tell her everything you've just posted on this site. tell her your feelings, you could even get her some flowers or something. be as romantic as you can and im sure you'll win her heart. and next time DONT END IT! good luck =D
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