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writes: I am having some problems getting over my ex girlfriend, most people would say this is natural but its been a year since we split up. Previously we had been going out for about 3 years on and off, and she did cheat on me a few times (some of these on our "off" period), but I kept wanting her back. Eventually she dumped me a year back for a bloke she came to despise, where we got back together several times. Finally she started going out with her current boyfriend. Now the thing is, she has the same friends I do (i am from a fairly close knit ex-pat community in holland), and I see her every week or so and we are best friends (so she tells me) and every now and again she tells me how much of a weird relationship we have. I have been with other women since but I cannot stop thinking about her. I haven't been able to tell my friends about it as I know what they will say, something along the lines of "get over her" but if I could I would. However, I havent met anyone with such a beautiful soul ever before and her eyes make me melt into myself, although many people would disagree, I think she is the most beautiful woman in the world. I just wish I could either by with her or get over her completely. I am having such a hard time with this, please help :/- K
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2005): I also have the same problem with my ex boyfriend, we broke up a year ago and i have been out with a couple of guys since but it doesnt go anywhere because i cant get over my him. I think maybe the problem we both have is that we are doing the 'best friends' thing with our exes and are still in contact. My ex lives up the road from me so i see him all the time and i think it makes it so hard to move on if you still see that person.So maybe the answer is to say to your ex that you cant be her friend anymore and try to see her less and less. you never know, she might really miss you and want you back but even if she doesnt at least you can try to move on and meet someone new. Goodluck!
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