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writes:dear freinds, am in a reall big trouble. you know, i was having a girl freind for more than four years, and all of a sudden , she came up with an idea of breaking up, but this is not the only problem, the thing is she happen to risk our love to take of her parents bankrapcy , by marrying a rich person, who can give her a huge amout of money. Is it fair?
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reader, LEXO +, writes (14 November 2007):
LEXO is verified as being by the original poster of the question MANY THANKS FOR YOUR ANSWER .I AM GLAD TO HAVE YOUR OPINION GUYS ON MY PROBLEM. YA , IT IS REALLY A NICE FORUM TO SHARE YOUR IDEAS AND TO LEARN FROM ONE ANOTHER.
MANY THANKS AGAIN.
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reader, LEXO +, writes (14 November 2007):
LEXO is verified as being by the original poster of the question MANY THANKS FOR YOUR ANSWER
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reader, Dustin587  +, writes (11 November 2007):
 It's not fair at all, but think of it this way: If you had married her, it would have been a lot more hurtful. Be glad you found out she was shallow before going any further with her.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (11 November 2007):
 All's fair in love and war. Money can't buy happiness. I've got a million of them. Count your blessings that you found out how absolutely shallow she was before you wasted anymore time on her. You are better off Dude.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007): It isn't fair, it really isn't. . . But there's not much you can do about it. I don't think it's a good idea for her to just go off and marry some rich dude either. It might solve the bankrupcy problem, but could also create so many other problems too.I would tell her how you feel about her and ask whether there's any other way she can solve this problem. If she leaves you, well, then its her loss.Good luck in the future, whatever happens.
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reader, Mistify  +, writes (11 November 2007):
 No it is certainly not fair, and no, she probably won't be happy if this is the only reason she's marrying this other rich guy.
Relationships should be based on LOVE, and not money.
Thing is, there is nothing you can do about it, other than tell her exactly how you feel about her, and how you feel about this situation. Maybe she's looking for the easy way out. Her parents financial problems is NOT your problem, but have you ever tried to help? Maybe if you can show her another way of helping her parents, she'd stay with you. Sorry about this situation, it must be very hard for you.
If you have another solution to her parents' financial problem, and she still does not want to be with you, then you should accept it, and realize that you deserve better. If someone is only after money, it means they are shallow, and you shouldn't be with somebody like this.
Good luck Lexo.
Let us know what happens.
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