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writes: My ex just broke up with her boyfriend. Well, they did, now I don't know what's going on, whether they're trying to make things work or not. Either way, I knew they were not going to work out anyway. My problem now is, how do I win her back? I know I can't just come out with it and make my move as I know she's dealing with a lot of emotions right now. Any ideas? Also, what do I do if she starts to talk to me about her breakup? I don't think I'm the guy for her to talk to about it, and I certainly don't want to be that good friend who she thinks she can talk to about it.I think that there is still something there between us, but how do I cultivate this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2006): Don't make yourself look devious! Keep at a good distance. If she needs someone's shoulder to cry on just make sure it isn't yours. If you two get together after all the dust has settle then so be but don't engineer it. It just won't work. She is on the rebound and i talk from a great deal of experience and rebound stuff just doesn't work in the long term. It might be great at first but a few months down the line, when emotions have settled down, one or both of you might ask, "what have we done".
Set back and watch the movie, if you are in the picture then your time will come but please don't force the issue.
Take care
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