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writes:Me and my girlfriend recently broke up, as she wanted more time to spend with her friends and a break from me. We had been arguing for a week or two about stupid things. She said she loves me a lot and that one day she hopes we can be together one day again but she also doesn't want me to wait. This is complete mixed signals and I'm not sure what to do. I love her so much and was wondering if I should leave her for a while and see if she contacts me. I was wondering how long I should wait.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (27 January 2012):
 She's trying to be gentle with you and end it with you slowly... that's my take on it... I would leave her be and go and about your business... make the assumption she is gone forever... she may change her mind and try to come back but by then you may not want her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2012): I've had this from my ex man, in other words it means i still want you back but if you move on i wont blame you....it's your choice. You can either gamble and hope she wants to be together now or you can move on...in which case it may even kick start you and her again because she may realize what she's missing out on or you'll both just mature with time and maybe even get back together in the future.
Im having the future bit right now and that's a whole 8months since me and my ex-girlfriend broke up.
Best of luck to you :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2012): "I love her so much and was wondering if I should leave her for a while and see if she contacts me."
Too late, you should have left her before she broke up with you first, now you're stuck with a girl you want to leave but can't because she isn't there.
"I was wondering how long I should wait."
As long as she's intending on stringing you along, which is as long as it's convenient for her, which is indefinitely, hence the mixed signals and vague implied promises.
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reader, Read-the-signs +, writes (27 January 2012):
One way or another she has broken things off, and maybe tried to cushion the blow in the process to spare your feelings. There are always mixed emotions at the end of a relationship, some regrets and some sadness. That is why you have had mixed messages from her. I think you should just live your life and don't be waiting by the phone for her to come back. What will be will be. You might even find that you move on faster than her and don't want to revisit this anyway.
All the best. x
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