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writes: I've been seeing this guy on and off for about five years. Waiting for things to click. Three months into this time around, and we've decided that we are "seeing each other" some of the same old habits are back, like not calling for 2 days at at time, but this time he knows he didn't and is trying to better himself. He did just start a new job this week too so.. Am i crazy for loving him, wanting things to work.? But then the other nite at the bar i kissed (alot) a friend of a friend while highly intoxicated. I stopped him three times but yet kissed him back each time, and i didn't feel bad. Well i do (or i wouldn't be typen this out) but not as bad as i probably should I don't want to tell him what happened bc it ment nothing, but yet i found myself sort of enjoying it that night, which isn't right. This may end things if i would tell the full truth. I'm in my mid 20's and have never done anything like this. But it was just a kiss and it won't happen again, so do i bother to tell him, when it was just a kiss? Reply to this Question
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reader, eddie  +, writes (24 April 2006):
 If it was just a kiss, why are you concerned. You're concerned because you've done something wrong and stupid. You knew it then and you know it now. Of course you liked it, why wouldn't you. The problem is you're not trustworthy. How could you embarass yourself and more importantly, your boyfriend like that?
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reader, Aunt Audrey  +, writes (24 April 2006):
 Unless there's a good chance he could find out from somebody else, I wouldn't bother to tell him if you've learnt your lesson and it won't happen again, sometimes what you don't know doesn't hurt you.
Your feeling guilty about kissing someone else, maybe you should make sure you don't get so "intoxicated" next time your out, you obviously lose a certain amount of self control when under the influence, this could lead to bigger problems for you in the future.
Good luck!
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