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writes:my boyfriend of one year had drug problem and while we were together he used ones a week he use to work but always without money so i guess he didnt stop taking the drug he realize that he has a problem but he never do anything about it, he always tell me he wants to change do they really change? now its been 3 weeks since i left him and he is borowing money from me and friends what shall i do he tells me for petrol and sig, but this kind of ppl they lie alot i dont want to give him money to go and buy the drug. i know he's not good for me but i love him should i stay friends or he is using me ?
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reader, rosequartz +, writes (5 May 2009):
rosequartz is verified as being by the original poster of the question He doesn't want to go to rehab he tells me that he can do it on his own i know he can't. i really cant get through to him. his parents know about him and his mum use to tell me that he is not good for me, i know that but i really really feel sorry for him he is really a nice guy and i dont know how can i help him more. even my parents now they don't want him because he had a chance to get clean.
tks for your advise i really have to make up my mind take care of my son and move on maybe one day he realize what he lost.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009): I'm sorry you are going through this but.................He's using you and will continue as long as you let him, your his ATM girl! He never quit using I assure you and won't until he's hit rock bottom, that will never happen with you helping him. I know it sounds harsh but you don't need to be used and waste time, move on. Don't stay friends with him as this is just another way for him to use you. I know you feel lots of Love but you can't fix him, it will hurt but you'll be better off and able to find a normal man.
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