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30-35,
*eth1990
writes:need help.. i have split up with my long term boy friend..never through i would get over him, he keeps texting me/calling me ect.. BUT i have been seeing this lad, he makes me feel so special, but he has a gf!! so i think he is using me... he is 16 years older then me and i think he just see's me as fun.. i am so worried if i carry on ill really like this lad and get hurt.. shall i carry on and have fun..or stop before any on gets hurt?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): If hes got a girlfriend already, then you are just a time filler, a piece of variety, something to keep spice there, somethign he can make himself feel better about. They never leave their girlfriends. hes a cheater and a liar and you are part of the deciet. Find someone that is honest genuine and your age before you get hurt. he has no intention of having a relationship with you, he just obviously likes teen girls and thats sick if you ask me... what could you possibly have in common with a 16 year age gap ? Hes after sex not to love you. yeah he might make you feel special but thats because hes getting what he wants. make a stand hunni, get out there and find someone that can be with you properly this will just end in tears and you will be very hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): Do yourself and walk away now before you get really hurt! This guy is so blatantly using you and at his age he knows what he's doin and should kno better!!
I mean he has a g/friend already, but he's cheating on her with you - whats stopping him from doin the same t hing with you and breaking your heart into pieces along the way also??
Just walk away now, no turning back and get on with your life and be happy....
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reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (27 November 2007):
 Stop before, not anyone, but YOU get hurt. He is blatantly using you! He's too old to have an actual relationship with you, he'd constantly keep you a secret and he is clearly only after one thing, don't fall for it!
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