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writes:Hello mates,I'm 20 years old and I'm not a virgin. (Active since age 15) I recently met a wonderful man who is 23. I took his virginity a few months ago and we have been having sex since. He's such an amazing fellow! Truly! I also didnt care that he was a virgin but he has trouble lasting while we have sex often leaving me hanging. He's very well endowed and the sex is so exciting but I wish he could last longer. Once I start moaning and saying his name, he just loses it. What can I do to help him last longer? I really like him and I wont stop seeing him because of this little issue. He means more to me than that.
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reader, wiseoldman  +, writes (25 March 2013):
To avoid frustration, take it in stages so you're not left up in the air. Stay dressed yourself to slow down your own reactions, and bring him off first by mouth, hand or whatever to relieve his urgency. Then get him into bed, undress, and have him play with you. Because he's come already he'll be in a better position to attend to your own needs, and he should be ready to go again in about half an hour at most. Have intercourse then, (the time he's spent in foreplay will help you both) and he will last longer. Repeat if necessary.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (25 March 2013):
 Don't moan and say his name?
If he's young and healthy, he should be able to get an erection again in short order. Be patient and then try again.
Alternatively, you could ensure you have reached your orgasm first, via manual or oral stimulation, so that when he does finish too early for you, you at least will be already satisfied.
Another option for you is to learn the start/stop method so he gets a bit more control over his own arousal cycle and he will eventually learn how to last a bit longer. Patience and practice are key there.
Use thicker condoms which would reduce his sensitivity, that's another avenue to explore.
http://www.sexinfo101.com/sd_premejac.shtml
Be safe and have fun learning!
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reader, Glacier  +, writes (25 March 2013):
Well, does he also masturbate regurarly in between the sex?
That would probably help him to last longer. Works very good for me. :-)
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